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Is It Okay for Kids and Teens to Be Angry With Their Parents?

Parents know it can be tough when their kids and teens get mad at them for establishing a boundary. It can make parents feel uncomfortable, question their boundaries, or shy away from setting them altogether. Dr. Delaney speaks with psychologist Karen Pavlidis, Ph.D., about how to think about—and what to do about—our struggles when facing our kids’ and teens’ anger.

How can parents know which boundaries are fair? Why is psychological control a real no-no, and what does research teach us about being overly permissive?

This episode is full of practical pointers—whether you’re a parent who feels shaken when your child is angry at you or simply looking for more advice on setting boundaries.

Featured Expert

Karen Pavlidis, Ph.D.

Research References

Parent Training in Non-Violence Resistance For Adult Entitled  (Family Process)

Additional Links

Child and Teen Solutions

Time Code

00:00 Introduction and Story Setup

02:14 A Parent's Dilemma: Handling Children's Anger

03:46 Expert Insights: Navigating Emotional Reactions

07:28 Balancing Boundaries and Emotional Health

25:31 Role-Playing Effective Parenting Strategies

29:34 Conclusion and Key Takeaways

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