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4 Essential Tech Guides Every Parent Should Read

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August 12, 2025
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Delaney Ruston, MD
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In Summary

Wow! Summer really goes by fast, doesn’t it? Back-to-school is already here for some and not far away for others.

One other thing that moves just as fast is technology, and with it, are the challenges its rapid changes bring for parents and families.

Over the years, we’ve published hundreds of resources for parents. Some eventually fall out of relevance (remember our 2016 guide on talking to your kids about the Pokémon Go craze?), but many remain just as valuable today as when they were first posted.

Ahead of this school year, I’ve hand-picked four of our most useful blogs. Practical, timely guides to help you set your family up for a healthier, more balanced relationship with technology in the months ahead.

4 Steps To Setting New Screen Limits

Originally published: April 6, 2021

Screens are so prominent now in our lives, and finding the right boundaries at home is an ongoing challenge. This guide breaks the process into four clear steps that start with family values and end with realistic rules, with plenty of wiggle room for life’s exceptions. 

You’ll also hear about my own first attempt at a phone contract (spoiler: it wasn’t perfect) and what I learned from it. If you’ve been meaning to reset your family’s screen agreements, now is the perfect time.

Read the full blog here >

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A Smart Guide for Simple (Dumb) Phones and Watches

Originally published: December 10, 2024

Phones and smartwatches open the door to more connection, but also more complexity in a child’s life. Before you decide, this guide walks you through the leading “simple” models, breaking down costs, features, and safety controls so you can choose with confidence. 

You’ll also find suggestions for working with other parents to create shared boundaries, making life easier for everyone. And if you’re still on the fence, I share why waiting can be one of the best tech decisions you make.

Read the full blog here >

5-Step Plan To Help Kids and Teens with AI Companion Chatbots

Originally published: November 5, 2024

AI “friends” aren’t science fiction anymore! AI Chatbots are here, they’re personal, and they can be risky. In this guide, I share a five-step framework to help you talk openly with your kids about this, the dangers they pose, and what rules make sense for your family. 

We also look at ways to encourage empathy and real-world connection in an age of digital intimacy. These conversations aren’t one-and-done; they’re ongoing, and our kids need us to be part of them.

Read the full blog here >

Social Media: Bold Ideas For Helping Our Teens

Originally published: April 9, 2024

The conversation about social media’s impact on youth is louder than ever, which is a good thing. Here, I explore four bold ideas for making positive change, from banning phones in schools to working together as parents to delay social media access. 

You’ll also find inspiring stories from communities already trying these approaches. With the school year ahead, it’s a perfect time to think about how we can give our teens more independence offline while better protecting them online.

Read the full blog here >

As a new school year begins, small, intentional changes can have a big impact on our kids’ wellbeing and our family life. I hope these guides spark ideas, conversations, and even a few new habits in your home. 

If you find them helpful, consider sharing this post with other parents, caregivers, or educators in your community. The more we work together, the better we can support our kids in navigating today’s fast-changing digital world.

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One other thing that moves just as fast is technology, and with it, are the challenges its rapid changes bring for parents and families.

Over the years, we’ve published hundreds of resources for parents. Some eventually fall out of relevance (remember our 2016 guide on talking to your kids about the Pokémon Go craze?), but many remain just as valuable today as when they were first posted.

Ahead of this school year, I’ve hand-picked four of our most useful blogs. Practical, timely guides to help you set your family up for a healthier, more balanced relationship with technology in the months ahead.

4 Steps To Setting New Screen Limits

Originally published: April 6, 2021

Screens are so prominent now in our lives, and finding the right boundaries at home is an ongoing challenge. This guide breaks the process into four clear steps that start with family values and end with realistic rules, with plenty of wiggle room for life’s exceptions. 

You’ll also hear about my own first attempt at a phone contract (spoiler: it wasn’t perfect) and what I learned from it. If you’ve been meaning to reset your family’s screen agreements, now is the perfect time.

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Phones and smartwatches open the door to more connection, but also more complexity in a child’s life. Before you decide, this guide walks you through the leading “simple” models, breaking down costs, features, and safety controls so you can choose with confidence. 

You’ll also find suggestions for working with other parents to create shared boundaries, making life easier for everyone. And if you’re still on the fence, I share why waiting can be one of the best tech decisions you make.

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5-Step Plan To Help Kids and Teens with AI Companion Chatbots

Originally published: November 5, 2024

AI “friends” aren’t science fiction anymore! AI Chatbots are here, they’re personal, and they can be risky. In this guide, I share a five-step framework to help you talk openly with your kids about this, the dangers they pose, and what rules make sense for your family. 

We also look at ways to encourage empathy and real-world connection in an age of digital intimacy. These conversations aren’t one-and-done; they’re ongoing, and our kids need us to be part of them.

Read the full blog here >

Social Media: Bold Ideas For Helping Our Teens

Originally published: April 9, 2024

The conversation about social media’s impact on youth is louder than ever, which is a good thing. Here, I explore four bold ideas for making positive change, from banning phones in schools to working together as parents to delay social media access. 

You’ll also find inspiring stories from communities already trying these approaches. With the school year ahead, it’s a perfect time to think about how we can give our teens more independence offline while better protecting them online.

Read the full blog here >

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August 12, 2025

Wow! Summer really goes by fast, doesn’t it? Back-to-school is already here for some and not far away for others.

One other thing that moves just as fast is technology, and with it, are the challenges its rapid changes bring for parents and families.

Over the years, we’ve published hundreds of resources for parents. Some eventually fall out of relevance (remember our 2016 guide on talking to your kids about the Pokémon Go craze?), but many remain just as valuable today as when they were first posted.

Ahead of this school year, I’ve hand-picked four of our most useful blogs. Practical, timely guides to help you set your family up for a healthier, more balanced relationship with technology in the months ahead.

4 Steps To Setting New Screen Limits

Originally published: April 6, 2021

Screens are so prominent now in our lives, and finding the right boundaries at home is an ongoing challenge. This guide breaks the process into four clear steps that start with family values and end with realistic rules, with plenty of wiggle room for life’s exceptions. 

You’ll also hear about my own first attempt at a phone contract (spoiler: it wasn’t perfect) and what I learned from it. If you’ve been meaning to reset your family’s screen agreements, now is the perfect time.

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