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“Having calm, consistent conversations has greatly improved screen balance in my home and I have written hundreds of articles to help others through my weekly Tech Talk Tuesdays newsletter and blog.”— Delaney Ruston, MD Physician/Filmmaker"

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February 12, 2019
Homework & Schoolwork

Decoding the Distractions that Hinder Homework Completion

I hear from parents regularly about their frustrations that although they set limits around their phones and game consoles when it’s time to do homework, they then have found out that the child/teen simply resumes their social media interactions and gaming on their homework device, i.e. tablets, laptops or desktops.

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February 4, 2019
Screen Time Reduction Skills

Stopping Endless Scrolling

Some analysts say the majority of YouTube videos people watch are discovered by the suggestions the company gives. That can be helpful... and harmful. What concerns me, beyond the time suck, is that algorithms are defining our children and forcing them deeper into silos.

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January 29, 2019
Social and Interpersonal Development

How to Increase Maturity in Youth

Today I give tips and ideas for reaching beyond the screen and making a point of bringing your kids and teens to events and places they wouldn’t naturally gravitate toward. Also, I share with you a very short (6 min) documentary I made that few people have seen and just happens to be one of my most favorite pieces.

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January 22, 2019
Screen Time Reduction Skills

How to foster mental focus in our kids—and ourselves

How do we achieve maximal mental focus in an overly wired and wireless world? I explore how to prune one’s digital life, getting it down to those technologies that truly help you.

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January 15, 2019
Healthy Romantic Partnerships

Co-parenting tech time, working through differences

In a world where parents can't always agree on what's best (let alone couples who are divorced or separated), an unwavering joint effort can be harder than it sounds. Thankfully, there are a few methods that can make calm compromise more likely.

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January 9, 2019
Screen Time Rules

Creating Consequences, Hard but Necessary!

I recently worked with my teen daughter to set up a fair consequence around one of her screen time rules. I also include several examples of consequences from other parents.

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January 1, 2019
Screen Time Rules

Best Screen Time Monitoring Apps 2020

Happy New Year! I thought this would be a good time to revisit your plans to limit screen time this year and reduce struggles in your house. I’ve got a 3 part plan.

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December 25, 2018
Media Recommendations

23 Films to Bond Over this Holiday Break

All these films can inspire meaningful conversations with teens and a few of the suggestions are appropriate for younger kids.

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December 18, 2018
Screen Time Reduction Skills

$100K for No Phone? When does Bribery Work?

What incentives work to help decrease screen time for our kids (and ourselves)? Today we look at a contest a company is running that is offering 100K for someone to not use their smartphone for the year and whether these kinds of external motivations change habits.

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December 11, 2018
Screen Time Rules

Groundbreaking study discovers an association between screen time and actual brain changes

Big news has hit us today about brain morphology and screen time and I want to weigh in as we all try to make sense of the findings.

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December 3, 2018
Creativity

12 Screen-less gift ideas kids will love

Coming up with unique gifts for the holidays to help promote off-screen time for kids and teens is something I have enjoyed writing about in the past and jazzed to do again today.

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November 20, 2018
Creativity

Screen Alternatives for Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is this week, and I have some ideas about how to support more face-to-face interactions and fewer retreats into all our individual devices.

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November 13, 2018
Social Media

Innocent (or not) flirting on social media

Often teens will say things online such as “hey you are cute” and other compliments. Teens tell me that they would not say these things face-to-face but online it is fun. I have tips and more to guide and support them.

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November 6, 2018
Away For The Day

Less is more, parents want to reduce tech in schools

Schools experience pressure to have tech on their campuses from tech companies, administration, and others. Schools want to do well by their students and tech has been sold as a quick fix.

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October 30, 2018
Challenging Conversations

How to help kids with scary and tragic news?

I encourage parents to share their feelings with their children. It is not about burdening them with one’s anxiety or sadness or other emotions. It is about naming feelings and discussing them. This approach has been shown to be highly effective in helping youth develop greater emotional intelligence.

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October 23, 2018
Social Media

How Teens Track Each Other on Snap Map

Last year Snapchat introduced Snap Map, a cartoon-looking map with Bitmojis of users positioned at their real-life locations. Did you know that It goes one step further than just showing where the kid is, it also can virtually show what they are actually doing?

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October 16, 2018
Screen Time Rules

Tell Them You Love Screen Time!

Spending more time talking with youth about all the cool things on screens paradoxically makes them more receptive to talking about ways to limit screen time.

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