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Why Are Young Girls Fixated on Skincare? Inside the New Beauty Pressure

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June 17, 2025
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Delaney Ruston, MD
Lisa Tabb
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In Summary

Recently, on my podcast with psychologist Jo-Ann Finkelstein, PhD, she made a point that stuck with me: many girls are losing sleep to wake early for makeup and beauty routines. I hadn’t fully considered how this affects their rest and well-being.

Another growing concern is how young girls, some as young as 7 or 8, are becoming fixated on beauty products particularly through viewing beauty routines or GRWM (Get Ready With Me) content from similarly young creators on platforms like TikTok or YouTube.

In Screenagers Elementary School Age Edition, we show clips of elementary-aged girls talking excitedly about their favorite skin and makeup items. This beauty obsession is reaching younger ages, fueled by pervasive beauty ideals on social media.

New research from Northwestern University, led by Dr. Molly Hales, examined 100 TikTok beauty routine videos by creators ages 7 to 18. Findings included:

  • An average of six skincare products per routine; some respondents use over a dozen products

  • Average cost: $168 (for about a month supply) — some over $500

  • Many products contain irritating or allergenic ingredients

  • Only 26% of the products contain sunscreen.

  • Videos often spread misinformation and promote “lighter, brighter skin” ideals

  • Unrealistic standards of beauty were widespread

My Take

As a doctor, I treat young people with irritated skin, and as a mom, I’m alarmed. Peer-driven beauty content, amplified by social media, is shaping how kids see themselves. The pressure to achieve a certain look is relentless, unattainable, and a toxic cycle.

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What Parents Can Do

Here are ways to start meaningful, nonjudgmental conversations:

1. Start with Empathy

Try to understand what your child is feeling from their perspective.

To get there, ask open-ended questions like:

  • “Have you noticed how into skincare your friends are?”
  • “What beauty routines have you seen on TikTok, YouTube, or other platforms?”
  • “What do you think makes these videos so appealing?

You might want to share an equivalent experience from your own childhood - for example, seeing beauty tips in a teen magazine.

2. Share this video clip

Watch this short clip from Screenagers: Elementary School Edition together. It features young kids showcasing their skincare and makeup routines and their excitement for brands like Sephora or Evereden. This can be a powerful springboard for a shared conversation.

3. Express Concerns Thoughtfully

Reference Dr. Hale’s TikTok study, noting that many products include ingredients that can irritate young (or any) skin. Explain how rashes or reactions may be linked to these products, something that kids might not realize on their own.

4. Collaborate on Solutions

Brainstorm together:

  • Pick one skin product each of you uses and research the ingredients together. 
  • Try a non-product skincare solution (besides sunscreen) for a week — like improving hydration or sleep — and track how it feels.
  • Consider a set time each evening where screens are replaced by something shared and enjoyable — reading, games, walks. Reducing exposure to beauty content and scrolling alone.

5. Plant Seeds

Even if your child doesn’t change their habits immediately, this kind of dialogue plants seeds. This is about nurturing critical thinking. When we show curiosity and calmly share our thoughts — without blame — we make little inroads.

Conversation Starters:

  • What are your friends into when it comes to skincare or makeup products?
  • What have you seen online about beauty routines?
  • Why do you think people want to use these products?
  • What do you think of the findings from that TikTok study?

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Recently, on my podcast with psychologist Jo-Ann Finkelstein, PhD, she made a point that stuck with me: many girls are losing sleep to wake early for makeup and beauty routines. I hadn’t fully considered how this affects their rest and well-being.

Another growing concern is how young girls, some as young as 7 or 8, are becoming fixated on beauty products particularly through viewing beauty routines or GRWM (Get Ready With Me) content from similarly young creators on platforms like TikTok or YouTube.

In Screenagers Elementary School Age Edition, we show clips of elementary-aged girls talking excitedly about their favorite skin and makeup items. This beauty obsession is reaching younger ages, fueled by pervasive beauty ideals on social media.

New research from Northwestern University, led by Dr. Molly Hales, examined 100 TikTok beauty routine videos by creators ages 7 to 18. Findings included:

  • An average of six skincare products per routine; some respondents use over a dozen products

  • Average cost: $168 (for about a month supply) — some over $500

  • Many products contain irritating or allergenic ingredients

  • Only 26% of the products contain sunscreen.

  • Videos often spread misinformation and promote “lighter, brighter skin” ideals

  • Unrealistic standards of beauty were widespread

My Take

As a doctor, I treat young people with irritated skin, and as a mom, I’m alarmed. Peer-driven beauty content, amplified by social media, is shaping how kids see themselves. The pressure to achieve a certain look is relentless, unattainable, and a toxic cycle.

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Here are ways to start meaningful, nonjudgmental conversations:

1. Start with Empathy

Try to understand what your child is feeling from their perspective.

To get there, ask open-ended questions like:

  • “Have you noticed how into skincare your friends are?”
  • “What beauty routines have you seen on TikTok, YouTube, or other platforms?”
  • “What do you think makes these videos so appealing?

You might want to share an equivalent experience from your own childhood - for example, seeing beauty tips in a teen magazine.

2. Share this video clip

Watch this short clip from Screenagers: Elementary School Edition together. It features young kids showcasing their skincare and makeup routines and their excitement for brands like Sephora or Evereden. This can be a powerful springboard for a shared conversation.

3. Express Concerns Thoughtfully

Reference Dr. Hale’s TikTok study, noting that many products include ingredients that can irritate young (or any) skin. Explain how rashes or reactions may be linked to these products, something that kids might not realize on their own.

4. Collaborate on Solutions

Brainstorm together:

  • Pick one skin product each of you uses and research the ingredients together. 
  • Try a non-product skincare solution (besides sunscreen) for a week — like improving hydration or sleep — and track how it feels.
  • Consider a set time each evening where screens are replaced by something shared and enjoyable — reading, games, walks. Reducing exposure to beauty content and scrolling alone.

5. Plant Seeds

Even if your child doesn’t change their habits immediately, this kind of dialogue plants seeds. This is about nurturing critical thinking. When we show curiosity and calmly share our thoughts — without blame — we make little inroads.

Conversation Starters:

  • What are your friends into when it comes to skincare or makeup products?
  • What have you seen online about beauty routines?
  • Why do you think people want to use these products?
  • What do you think of the findings from that TikTok study?

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Why Are Young Girls Fixated on Skincare? Inside the New Beauty Pressure

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Recently, on my podcast with psychologist Jo-Ann Finkelstein, PhD, she made a point that stuck with me: many girls are losing sleep to wake early for makeup and beauty routines. I hadn’t fully considered how this affects their rest and well-being.

Another growing concern is how young girls, some as young as 7 or 8, are becoming fixated on beauty products particularly through viewing beauty routines or GRWM (Get Ready With Me) content from similarly young creators on platforms like TikTok or YouTube.

In Screenagers Elementary School Age Edition, we show clips of elementary-aged girls talking excitedly about their favorite skin and makeup items. This beauty obsession is reaching younger ages, fueled by pervasive beauty ideals on social media.

New research from Northwestern University, led by Dr. Molly Hales, examined 100 TikTok beauty routine videos by creators ages 7 to 18. Findings included:

  • An average of six skincare products per routine; some respondents use over a dozen products

  • Average cost: $168 (for about a month supply) — some over $500

  • Many products contain irritating or allergenic ingredients

  • Only 26% of the products contain sunscreen.

  • Videos often spread misinformation and promote “lighter, brighter skin” ideals

  • Unrealistic standards of beauty were widespread

My Take

As a doctor, I treat young people with irritated skin, and as a mom, I’m alarmed. Peer-driven beauty content, amplified by social media, is shaping how kids see themselves. The pressure to achieve a certain look is relentless, unattainable, and a toxic cycle.

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