AI has moved into kids' lives faster than most parents can track, and this roundup gathers seven recent posts to help make sense of it: the AI now baked into the apps and devices kids already use, what happens when they turn to it for connection and support, and how it is reshaping the classroom.
This September, Lisa and I are releasing our new documentary, Screenagers: Generation AI, a look at the risks artificial intelligence poses to young people's social lives, their schoolwork, and their mental health, and what can be done to mitigate those risks.
Making it has given me such a strong awareness of the rapid speed by which AI has moved into our kids' lives-such as into their social apps, their schoolwork, and increasingly, their emotional lives.
Let's face it, smartphones, social media, and endless screen time became rampant in children's lives long before society took the harms seriously. We can't afford to repeat that mistake with AI. So this felt like the right moment to gather my recent AI posts together in one place.
I have grouped them into three buckets. The first is about how AI has quietly become part of the devices and platforms our kids already use. The second is about what happens when young people turn to AI for connection and support. The third is about AI in the classroom.
You may not have invited AI into your teen's social media, but it is there anyway. In this post, I look at how Snapchat and Instagram now have AI chatbots built in by default, with no real way to turn them off. I also dig into something genuinely alarming: Meta's own internal documents revealed policies that allowed minors to receive romantic and sexual content from its AI, and teens' conversations with Meta AI are now being mined to target them with ads.
Key takeaway: these features are designed for engagement, not safety. It is worth sitting down with your kids to show them exactly where the AI lives inside their apps and to talk through why there is no off switch.
Read AI Is All Over Your Teen's Social Media. But Is It Safe?
This one is in response to a question I hear often from parents: should I worry about my kid using Alexa or Google Home? As these smart speakers swap in more advanced AI, like Amazon's Alexa+ and Google's Gemini, they sound more human than ever, and that brings real risks.
I cover how kids can stumble onto inappropriate content, how barking commands at a device can quietly model rudeness, and the privacy questions around all that collected voice data.
Key takeaway: a simple, high-impact step is keeping smart speakers out of kids' bedrooms, especially at night. I also share screen-free alternatives for music and bedtime stories.
Read Alexa, Are You Safe for Kids?
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I rarely lead with how upset a topic makes me, but in this one I did. After reading Voicebox's Coded Companions report on what young people actually experienced with Snapchat's My AI and the companion app Replika, I felt I had to get the information to you right away. These companion bots are built to feel like a real relationship, and that is exactly what makes them so effective at creating false intimacy and crossing boundaries.
Key takeaway: the companion-bot market is booming, with dozens of apps now available. Kids who are lonely or vulnerable are the most at risk, which makes open, judgment-free conversation the best protection we have.
Read Super Scary Snapchat AI and Other AI Chatbot Companions
For those who want the data, this post walks through a survey of nearly 2,400 teens and young adults from the Rithm Project. Most use AI simply for information and tasks, but a meaningful group are turning to AI characters for personal support, and that is where it gets concerning.
Key takeaway: among the teens leaning on AI for emotional support, more than half said they feel they have no one else to turn to. That single finding tells us this is far less about technology than it is about connection and loneliness.
Read Are Teens Choosing AI Over Human Connection?
This is the hardest of these to read, and I would not blame you for saving it for when you have the space. It covers the wrongful-death lawsuit filed by the parents of 16-year-old Adam Raine against OpenAI. The case alleges that over months of heavy daily use, ChatGPT reinforced rather than interrupted his darkest thinking and failed to point him to real crisis help.
Key takeaway: empathic, engagement-driven chatbots were rushed to market without the guardrails this kind of power demands. The post lays out the safeguards we urgently need, along with gentle ways to talk with your own kids about strong emotions and where to turn for help.
Read Learning from the Tragic Teen Death Linked to ChatGPT
AI can now do a great deal of our kids' homework for them, which raises a hard question: when does using it support learning, and when does it quietly replace it? I break homework into categories, memorization, production, calculation, and art, and walk through which ones AI can shortcut and which still require real student effort.
Key takeaway: the work of thinking is the point. Clear household rules, paired with ongoing conversation, help protect the effort that actually builds skills.
Read Should Kids Use AI for Homework?
Drawing on candid interviews with college students, this post explores the murky ethical lines kids are being asked to draw on their own, what counts as help, and what counts as cheating. I also share the unsettling story of a student who was wrongly flagged for AI cheating on a paper she wrote entirely herself.
Key takeaway: AI-detection tools are far from reliable, and the definitions are still being argued over. That uncertainty makes it all the more important to talk through these gray areas with the students in your life.
Read ChatGPT in School: What Counts as Cheating?
AI is not going to slow down to let any of us catch up, but I hope sharing these posts with you helps keep it in your thoughts in a way that is not overwhelming. As always, the goal is not fear. It is staying close enough to our kids that these conversations feel natural when they matter most.
This is exactly the conversation our new film is built to start. Screenagers: Generation AI arrives this September, and like all of our movies, it is made to be watched together in schools and communities, because this is not something any of us can take on alone.
If you would like to bring the movie to your school or community, you can register your interest here and our team will follow up with more details.
Learn more about showing our movies in your school or community!
Join Screenagers filmmaker Delaney Ruston MD for our latest Podcast
Learn more about our Screen-Free Sleep campaign at the website!
Our movie made for parents and educators of younger kids
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This September, Lisa and I are releasing our new documentary, Screenagers: Generation AI, a look at the risks artificial intelligence poses to young people's social lives, their schoolwork, and their mental health, and what can be done to mitigate those risks.
Making it has given me such a strong awareness of the rapid speed by which AI has moved into our kids' lives-such as into their social apps, their schoolwork, and increasingly, their emotional lives.
Let's face it, smartphones, social media, and endless screen time became rampant in children's lives long before society took the harms seriously. We can't afford to repeat that mistake with AI. So this felt like the right moment to gather my recent AI posts together in one place.
I have grouped them into three buckets. The first is about how AI has quietly become part of the devices and platforms our kids already use. The second is about what happens when young people turn to AI for connection and support. The third is about AI in the classroom.
You may not have invited AI into your teen's social media, but it is there anyway. In this post, I look at how Snapchat and Instagram now have AI chatbots built in by default, with no real way to turn them off. I also dig into something genuinely alarming: Meta's own internal documents revealed policies that allowed minors to receive romantic and sexual content from its AI, and teens' conversations with Meta AI are now being mined to target them with ads.
Key takeaway: these features are designed for engagement, not safety. It is worth sitting down with your kids to show them exactly where the AI lives inside their apps and to talk through why there is no off switch.
Read AI Is All Over Your Teen's Social Media. But Is It Safe?
This one is in response to a question I hear often from parents: should I worry about my kid using Alexa or Google Home? As these smart speakers swap in more advanced AI, like Amazon's Alexa+ and Google's Gemini, they sound more human than ever, and that brings real risks.
I cover how kids can stumble onto inappropriate content, how barking commands at a device can quietly model rudeness, and the privacy questions around all that collected voice data.
Key takeaway: a simple, high-impact step is keeping smart speakers out of kids' bedrooms, especially at night. I also share screen-free alternatives for music and bedtime stories.
Read Alexa, Are You Safe for Kids?
I rarely lead with how upset a topic makes me, but in this one I did. After reading Voicebox's Coded Companions report on what young people actually experienced with Snapchat's My AI and the companion app Replika, I felt I had to get the information to you right away. These companion bots are built to feel like a real relationship, and that is exactly what makes them so effective at creating false intimacy and crossing boundaries.
Key takeaway: the companion-bot market is booming, with dozens of apps now available. Kids who are lonely or vulnerable are the most at risk, which makes open, judgment-free conversation the best protection we have.
Read Super Scary Snapchat AI and Other AI Chatbot Companions
For those who want the data, this post walks through a survey of nearly 2,400 teens and young adults from the Rithm Project. Most use AI simply for information and tasks, but a meaningful group are turning to AI characters for personal support, and that is where it gets concerning.
Key takeaway: among the teens leaning on AI for emotional support, more than half said they feel they have no one else to turn to. That single finding tells us this is far less about technology than it is about connection and loneliness.
Read Are Teens Choosing AI Over Human Connection?
This is the hardest of these to read, and I would not blame you for saving it for when you have the space. It covers the wrongful-death lawsuit filed by the parents of 16-year-old Adam Raine against OpenAI. The case alleges that over months of heavy daily use, ChatGPT reinforced rather than interrupted his darkest thinking and failed to point him to real crisis help.
Key takeaway: empathic, engagement-driven chatbots were rushed to market without the guardrails this kind of power demands. The post lays out the safeguards we urgently need, along with gentle ways to talk with your own kids about strong emotions and where to turn for help.
Read Learning from the Tragic Teen Death Linked to ChatGPT
AI can now do a great deal of our kids' homework for them, which raises a hard question: when does using it support learning, and when does it quietly replace it? I break homework into categories, memorization, production, calculation, and art, and walk through which ones AI can shortcut and which still require real student effort.
Key takeaway: the work of thinking is the point. Clear household rules, paired with ongoing conversation, help protect the effort that actually builds skills.
Read Should Kids Use AI for Homework?
Drawing on candid interviews with college students, this post explores the murky ethical lines kids are being asked to draw on their own, what counts as help, and what counts as cheating. I also share the unsettling story of a student who was wrongly flagged for AI cheating on a paper she wrote entirely herself.
Key takeaway: AI-detection tools are far from reliable, and the definitions are still being argued over. That uncertainty makes it all the more important to talk through these gray areas with the students in your life.
Read ChatGPT in School: What Counts as Cheating?
AI is not going to slow down to let any of us catch up, but I hope sharing these posts with you helps keep it in your thoughts in a way that is not overwhelming. As always, the goal is not fear. It is staying close enough to our kids that these conversations feel natural when they matter most.
This is exactly the conversation our new film is built to start. Screenagers: Generation AI arrives this September, and like all of our movies, it is made to be watched together in schools and communities, because this is not something any of us can take on alone.
If you would like to bring the movie to your school or community, you can register your interest here and our team will follow up with more details.
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This September, Lisa and I are releasing our new documentary, Screenagers: Generation AI, a look at the risks artificial intelligence poses to young people's social lives, their schoolwork, and their mental health, and what can be done to mitigate those risks.
Making it has given me such a strong awareness of the rapid speed by which AI has moved into our kids' lives-such as into their social apps, their schoolwork, and increasingly, their emotional lives.
Let's face it, smartphones, social media, and endless screen time became rampant in children's lives long before society took the harms seriously. We can't afford to repeat that mistake with AI. So this felt like the right moment to gather my recent AI posts together in one place.
I have grouped them into three buckets. The first is about how AI has quietly become part of the devices and platforms our kids already use. The second is about what happens when young people turn to AI for connection and support. The third is about AI in the classroom.
You may not have invited AI into your teen's social media, but it is there anyway. In this post, I look at how Snapchat and Instagram now have AI chatbots built in by default, with no real way to turn them off. I also dig into something genuinely alarming: Meta's own internal documents revealed policies that allowed minors to receive romantic and sexual content from its AI, and teens' conversations with Meta AI are now being mined to target them with ads.
Key takeaway: these features are designed for engagement, not safety. It is worth sitting down with your kids to show them exactly where the AI lives inside their apps and to talk through why there is no off switch.
Read AI Is All Over Your Teen's Social Media. But Is It Safe?
This one is in response to a question I hear often from parents: should I worry about my kid using Alexa or Google Home? As these smart speakers swap in more advanced AI, like Amazon's Alexa+ and Google's Gemini, they sound more human than ever, and that brings real risks.
I cover how kids can stumble onto inappropriate content, how barking commands at a device can quietly model rudeness, and the privacy questions around all that collected voice data.
Key takeaway: a simple, high-impact step is keeping smart speakers out of kids' bedrooms, especially at night. I also share screen-free alternatives for music and bedtime stories.
Read Alexa, Are You Safe for Kids?
Snapchat and Instagram both have AI chatbots built in by default, with no way to fully disable them. Meta's own internal documents revealed policy decisions that allowed minors to receive romantic and sexual content from its AI systems. Meanwhile, Snapchat's premium AI features are designed to increase engagement, and Meta is now using teens' AI conversations to target them with personalized ads.
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New research from the Rithm Project surveyed 2,383 teens and young adults to understand how AI is shaping their relationships. While most use AI for information and tasks, a notable group are turning to AI characters for emotional support, with over half of this group reporting they feel they have no one to turn to. These findings offer an important window into how some teens are really using AI, and why parents need to be having these conversations.
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AI tools like ChatGPT can now complete many homework tasks for students, often in minutes. While these tools may be useful for skilled adults, research suggests they can undermine learning for children by bypassing effort, problem solving, and critical thinking. Homework that involves writing, calculations, or study materials is especially vulnerable to AI use, while memorization and hands-on creative work still require student effort. Clear household rules and ongoing conversations can help protect learning and set expectations around AI use for schoolwork.
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